Meeting with the stars!

This is probably long outdated but I thought I share them with you. We often read articles from Kellymom.com when we are in need of a little evidence based advise and support. The site also features logical, non judgemental articles from the renowned Dr Jack Newman who’s name is no stranger in the lactation field as one of the most revered experts.

Some of us may have also read articles or books authored by Sue Cox (Breastfeeding with Confidence) and Diana West’s Making More Milk. Both of them are also in the league of “seasoned” lactation consultants with experience spanning more than 15-20years helping and supporting mothers and babies. I had the opportunity to meet these wonderful mentors in a Conference and their down to earth explanations really helped me understand the mechanics of lactation even better.

Diana West shared with us her experience as a mom who has had a breast reduction surgery and despite it all, she was able to go on to breastfeed all of her children. Her experience was invaluable and this goes to show that mother’s who has had breast surgeries are able to breastfeed without any difficulties (this is depending on when the surgery was performed, incision type and the type of procedure)

Diana West and I

Diana West and I

Coincidentally at that time, I had a friend who was having an overactive let-down and because of that, her baby was not getting enough of the hind milk and thus was not putting on weight “ideally” (that would be in accordance to the growth chart) She was told to put her baby on formula to “catch up” with his weight. The option clearly broke her heart as she was looking forward to exclusively breastfeed her son. She was told to use block feedings and pump a little before letdown so that her son would be able to take in more of the hindmilk instead of the foremilk. Interestingly enough,I related this to Sue Cox and on top of pumping and using blocked feedings, she demonstrated a couple of nursing positions on how mom could help with the overactive letdown and the proper way of using blocked feedings (the positioning of the scissor like fingers).

Mom was not thought on the additional information by her health professional that Sue had shared with me and I think if mom had access to the information, breastfeeding could have been more pleasant for her and she would not have to even supplement.

Sue Cox and I

Sue Cox and I

Meeting Dr Newman was truly an amazing experience. I had read so much about him and it was his articles that I was reading and referring to when I was spending 1 week in the hospital and having issues with breastfeeding (cracked and bleeding nipples) and the nurses at that time was not that helpful. Dr Newman’s soothing words guided me; told me that it was okay and everything will turn out just fine and repeatedly told me that I was going to be a good mother when I was feeling down or could not understand what was happening to my breastfeeding relationship or why am I experiencing these discomforts. In short, I wouldn’t be where I am today if it is wasn’t for Dr Newman’s (and also my mom and husband) support and advises :)

Dr Jack Newman and I

Dr Jack Newman and I

 

 

 

I’m sure some of you might have heard or know about e-Bunda, Brunei’s collaborative portal for women towards the progression of Brunei Darussalam. A brief introduction about e-Bunda, the original intent of the establishment of eBunda was to enable women in Brunei to be trained while taking a career break in order to take care of their children and the elderly. Based on the feedback received during the focus groups organized by BAG Networks, the establishment of eBunda was to fulfill the following mission:

  1. To focus on the development of female leaders, designing outcomes where women can contribute to the progression of Brunei.
  2. To promote continuous learning by providing easily accessible and readily available online learning which supports the needs of the women in Brunei.
  3. To provide a platform for women in Brunei to connect and collaborate through a supportive network.

In support of this, a portal was developed that acts as a platform in which information can be shared and to create awareness on issues which are important to women such as health, environment, business and finance, career, education, and affirmative action in influencing a positive contribution to Brunei.

As part of the services provided, the portal will be an avenue where women can develop themselves through online learning and also use the portal as a platform to build a supportive and collaborative network amongst women.

Source : http://www.ebunda.org/index.php/about-ebunda/134-outline

So right now, e-Bunda is looking for moms who are currently in transition to finding a new vocation/maternity leave/vocation break or simply want to explore in some other skills, to discuss on improving and redesigning the eBunda Portal. It will be an informal session to brainstorm for ideas on what can be done to improve the whole look of eBunda.org and to find out what materials and tools we can provide to mothers on maternity leave or those on career breaks.

e-Bunda is inviting you to a focus group and hope that the ideas and inputs from the mothers can help them rebuild the portal. If you are interested in joining this focus group, please send me an email at info@dotdotslittleshop.com and we’ll compile the names before passing them on to e-Bunda.

Please help to pass the word around :)

On 6th August, the Ministry of Health organised a ceremony to celebrate the auspicious event at the Health Promotion Centre at Jalan Commonwealth Drive. Attending as the guest of honour were Pehin Orang Kaya Johan Pahlawan Dato Seri Setia Awang Haji Adanan bin Begawan Pehin Siraja Khatib Dato Seri Setia Awang Haji Mohd Yusof, Minister of Health and Datin Paduka Hajah Salmah binti Haji Hanafiah.

We were fortunate enough to be able to participate in this formal event with the Ministry this time around as compared with the previous year where we had visited the MCHs clinics. This year’s event features an interesting highlight whereby MCHs all around the country had prepared their “Breastfeeding Wall of Fame” where mothers can share their successful breastfeeding journey with the rest of the mothers. It was a competition between the MCHs and finally the winner was announced.

 

One of the Matrons

Coming in first place would be the Telisai MCH clinic followed by Berakas ‘A’ & Seria Health Clinic in second and third place respectively. The Minister of Health also launched the Breastfeeding Guide Book and presented it to various health clinics representatives from the Medical Service Department, Health Service Department, hospitals and private clinics nationwide.

The Head of Obstetric & Gynaecology Specialist at RIPAS Hospital; Dr Hjh Roselina binti DP Haji Yaakub  also delivered a keynote speech and a short video clip presentation on the World Breastfeeding Week 2011. Even though this year’s event was not as “emotional” as the previous year, but I could not help my tears from welling up just watching the video. Luckily enough I was seated at a corner and those tears were quickly wiped away before anyone could notice.

No matter how many times I see or read of any publications with regards to breastfeeding or hear a mother’s story, I still get all mushy inside :)

Here are some of the related media links of this event :

http://www.borneobulletin.com.bn/sunday/news/aug7h19.htm

http://www.bt.com.bn/news-national/2011/08/07/moh-bats-exclusive-breastfeeding

 

 

 

5th August 2011 was when we had our inaugural World Breastfeeding Week gathering and it was held at our showroom. About 11 moms and their children (from babies to toddlers and grown ups) attended the little get together.

We had a variety of moms from different backgrounds and culture, bottle feeding & breastfeeding; sharing their experiences and what had kept them going and how they had handled criticism and setbacks along their journey. Some mothers only manage to breastfeed for about a month while others went on to breastfeed their children up to 5-7years old which is normal as the global weaning age is about 4-7 years old.

In our group of moms we had a freelance reporter to take our pictures and she wrote a really lovely article about the event which can be found in today’s Borneo Bulletin :)

World Breastfeeding Week 2011 gathering @ Dot Dot's Little Shop, Menglait

 

While my daughter was not at the event together with me, she most certainly helped out during the weekend together with her daddy in setting up the room and making sure that it is nice and clean for her little friends, and here is a video of her in action :)

 

We now have a showroom!

We had officially opened our showroom on 28th July 2011 and it was such a lovely feeling seeing and spending some time chatting with all the lovely mothers and their families who came to visit us.

Of course no event would be complete without some refreshments and lucky for us, we have 2 bakeries within our proximity and we were spoiled with the variety of savory pastries and cakes that they have to offer.

As our signboard is not yet up, we had engaged in using some balloons to be hung outside of our window for easy identification. Again, having a party planner around our area helped in getting the helium balloons in time for the opening.

Here are some pictures taken of our showroom (thanks to our lovely photographer, Mandy! :) )

There is also an article about us in the papers :

1. http://www.bt.com.bn/happenings/2011/07/29/dot-dots-little-shop-opens-business

2. http://www.bt.com.bn/business-national/2011/08/05/little-shop-lives-motto-breast-milk-best-babies

 

Our variety of products in store

 

Our nursing tops, nursing bras and changing corner

 

Our HOTmilk model

 

Our comfy red sofa

 

 

 

 

 


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